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relationships, situationships, and everything in between
Why You Need Us
We are two guys who have been in the trenches of modern dating.
We have seen the good, the bad, and the ugly.
And we are alive to tell the tale.
We have also been fortunate enough to have quite a few women friends. While helping them navigate their relationships we realized that women have a hard time understanding men.
Women assume men think like them. Spoiler alert: They Don't
Men are wired differently. And we are here to help you understand them.
Whether you're tangled in a situationship, decoding mixed signals, or just trying to figure out what he's thinking, we've got your back.
With a mix of guy-perspective wisdom, a dash of humor, and zero judgment, we're here to help you navigate the wild world of modern romance.
Meet Your Guy Guides

Adi
Professional red, green and any colored flag spotter.
Experienced in sending and decoding signals so mixed the military couldn't crack them

Shar
A former, reformed fuckboy who now helps sweep away the bullshit and get to the truth.
He's been there, done that, and now hes helping you avoid guys like his old self.
Real Talk from Real Girls
“Alex helped me finally understand why my situationship was going nowhere. Now I know exactly what to look for! 💅”
Sophie M.
Dating App Queen
“Ryan's advice was a game-changer! He helped me decode all those confusing guy behaviors and now I feel so much more confident in dating.”
Emma R.
Relationship Explorer
“These guys are the real deal! They give you the straight truth about what guys think, no sugar coating. Finally got clarity on my dating life!”
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Modern Dater
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